Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Day 1 — Your Best Friend

How would i define "best friend" in the first place?Well ,I used to have a few but I guess i could no longer trust them anymore ...


I am sure all of us do make friends in life . For me , I remember myself experiencing to have"best friends" was like way back to pri3-4? When I met Xiao Wei and then Carissa during my p5 days ...

[XiaoWei @ most left(1st photo) and Carissa in th middle(second photo) ]


We used to share a diary (with passcode somemore ) . We gossip about all kind of stuffs in there , especially about our crushes , lol ! &&& we do words hunt/snake&ladder too . Damn memorable seriously . Oh ya , i remember we have to sign out after every entry post if not we have to pay each other fine (10cents/$1) i forgot , lol.(we even quarreled over that few cents lo, >< ) Also , i remember got one period of time where xiao wei and i would meet up early in the morning, & head to carissa's place just to practice for our F.I.R dance-Performing "fly away" for our class during one of the music lesson for school audition if i'm not wrong .

During recess, we would never failed to sit together . Standard meals : Fish ball noodle soup -60cents( one fish ball for 10 and 1 meatball for 20cents,lol!) , Chicken nuggets from Malay stall at 30cents each(best!) , honeydew after our meal at 30cents each , or at times tibits like bear choc cookies or whatsoever la. haha ! I remember one of our classmate , eugene , would never fail to queue up for his lor mee bigbowl every recess manzx , even if the queue is fcuking long . lol . Carissa and i would never fail to da bao rice everyday after school one . alot of meat plus egg plus veg at only $1.80 ! (arghhh so miss it ) .

Sometime in the afternoon, we would gather some of our primary schoolmates who stay nearby Carissa . For eg chunhow , jason , carrie , minting etc , and we started making water bombs and to play at the second level , lol ~ Oh ya ! We made a fool out of ourselves by playing block catching , and caused a few residents to complain. haha !

Well , this is life . It's kinda disappointing at first to see both my best friends getting into an Express stream after Psle where i'm stuck at N.A stream , & went on separate ways . Now , I'm glad that i would be able to keep in touch with them as carissa has got her own hp (like finally la , haha ) . Also , i get to bump into xiaowei at times at the compassvale lrt too :) Again, both of them are already graduated and got promoted up to another level (poly) , where i'm here , rotting at pei hwa sec still , taking my O's this year .... Hopefully , I would be able to get into TP . sighhhh*




Things had started to change during my secondary school days . I remember Bylene was the first person that i had approached to talk to as both our siblings studied at the same tuition centre and both of us became theirs maid where we're the one who send them for tuition , lol . However , i started hanging out with this new friend of mine , Eunice A.ll .



I know we used to quarrel alot , seriously way too much at times. But with her, i dont know why i became more daring than before, as i always got bullied ( especially by the seniors when i first stepped into the school ) . Early in the morning , i would meet her at her place and take another bus to school .After school, at times, we would head to hougang point for lunch . Rotiprata , mac , foodcourt , or even shop around .

A year later , Chuling joined in and soon , we became a clique of threesome yo . We hangout almost everyday , regarding in school or after school.

( this was taken near Eunice's place. Spike hair leh somemore. hahah !)


& i remember we bought this wallet together at Bishan , together with a hp pouch ,( i still have it with me ) ...


This was the first time we went out without wearing our uniform. lol. To meet the guys if i'm not wrong , :)



& this i'll never forget , the very last photo we took together ... with such sweet smile on our face...


Due to some misunderstandings , we girls parted and decided to go our own ways . However , at times , Chuling and i would still catch up with one another, & soon we became the closest sister/friend during that period ...

( She used to be called my dumb sotonq mei as she's super blurrrr . REAL BLUR I SWEAR)

We went Sentosa for suntanning (even though i'm real tanned already ),


We chilled at Starbucks after school ...

& we shared those fun and laughter together




I had even did a DIY Birthday card for her , & she promised to paste it up on her wall in her room, haha !

& she even took a picture of it to prove to me as evident, haha ! cute



However , again , there's misunderstanding with the both of us too and we really parted our own ways , just like that .
I've tried all ways to salvage this f/s / sistership . But to no avail; it doesn't work.

(This was what i give to her after some misunderstandings , & i thought everything would turn out well but still... just that cold towards one another ...)

Fortunately , after a year or so without talking to Eunice , we started talking last 2 years? After quarrel for a year going 2 too? haha ! For chuling's case , we've always been talking but just a little cold towards one another during the year where we just drifted much apart ...

Now , I'm glad that everything's back per normal ... I do meetup with Chulez for movie or so , but also get to go on a date out with eunice, porridge @ chinatown , remember? :)
Well , though the both of them are still not talking to one another. But i hope , one day ,miracle do happen ya ? Perhaps just let the nature takes it course then ....


Dear Chulez , thanks for trying to be there even though you do not know how to cheer someone up , lol . Thanks for the DIY birthday card too , & of course for always helping me to get cigarettes at your station , lol . I hope , even after we had graduated and would really go on our own ways , we would still keep in touch and meet up at times to chill or what so ever ya? No matter what if you need anything, i'm just a call away , (L)

& For my dear Eunice S.e , thanks for your everything just right from the start when i first stepped into the school. You should have seen it coming that we would end up this way . Well , Though the misunderstandings and conflicts stand at a higher position than our happy memories, but no matter what I hope we're still the disiao siao and not dao de S.e okay .
For the past years , You've taught me lots of stuffs that could be applied in my life .Also , You get to see me changing new bf like as if I'm changing my own clothes in school,lol . ( all your fault , for asking me to stick with the guys than the girls . I remember you saying that with girls , you would always get into misunderstandings all the time , whereas to compare with the guys , the guys would try any ways just to cheer us girls up at times. Doing silly stuffs etc . Will never forget all those jokers in the n2 class , haha !
Shall treat you eat at chinatown after O's . & don't forget my wang wang drink too ! ^^




Day 1 -COMPLETED .

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